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Quotes for a eulogy or funeral

The right words can carry you through a eulogy when your own words run out. These quotes and readings are often chosen for funerals and memorials, each checked against its source.

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“'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
Alfred, Lord Tennyson · 1850
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“'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
Alfred, Lord Tennyson · In Memoriam A.H.H., canto 27 · 1850 · Poet

Tennyson, grieving the sudden death of his closest friend, decides that the pain of losing someone is better than never having loved them. It was written about friendship and death, not a breakup.

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“Cowards die many times before their deaths; the valiant never taste of death but once.”
William Shakespeare · Julius Caesar, Act 2, Scene 2 · 1599 · Playwright

Caesar tells his wife that cowards suffer death over and over in their fears, while the brave face it only once. He says it on the morning he is murdered.

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“Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.”
Gospel of Luke · Gospel of Luke 23:34 (King James Version) · 85 · Religious figure

Even while being executed, Jesus asks God to forgive the people responsible, because they do not understand what they are doing.

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“Government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth.”
Abraham Lincoln · Gettysburg Address · 1863 · Politician

The last words of the Gettysburg Address, spoken at a cemetery for Union soldiers. Lincoln turned a funeral into a promise that the war was being fought to keep democracy itself alive.

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“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”
Gospel of John · The Bible, John 15:13 (King James Version) · 1611 · Religious figure

The greatest love a person can show is to give up their life for others. Jesus says it at the Last Supper, the night before his death.

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“Her children arise up, and call her blessed.”
Book of Proverbs · The Bible, Proverbs 31:28 (King James Version) · 1611 · Religious figure

Part of a poem praising a wise, hard-working, generous woman. Her children and husband honor her because her life has blessed them.

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“Hope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul.”
Emily Dickinson · “Hope” is the thing with feathers · 1861 · Poet

Dickinson pictures hope as a small bird that lives in the soul, sings without stopping through every storm, and never asks for anything in return.

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“I only regret that I have but one life to lose for my country.”
Nathan Hale · Last words before his execution, as reported by witnesses · 1776 · Military leader

The last words reported of a 21-year-old American spy hanged by the British. They were written down years later, and they echo a line from a popular play of the time.

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“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately.”
Henry David Thoreau · Walden, “Where I Lived, and What I Lived For” · 1854 · Writer

Thoreau explains why he moved to Walden Pond: to strip life down to its essentials and find out what it really has to teach, so that he would not reach death and discover he had not lived.

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“In Flanders fields the poppies blow between the crosses, row on row.”
John McCrae · “In Flanders Fields” · 1915 · Military leader

The dead of the First World War speak from their graves among the poppies, asking the living to carry on their cause and not break faith with them.

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“Love is patient, love is kind.”
Paul the Apostle · First Letter to the Corinthians 13:4 · 54 · Religious figure

Paul describes the kind of love that should hold a community together: patient, kind, humble and enduring. It was written to a quarreling church, not a couple.

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“Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you.”
Gospel of Matthew · Gospel of Matthew 5:44, Sermon on the Mount (King James Version) · 85 · Religious figure

Treat even people who hate you with goodwill, wish them well and pray for them, just as God sends sunshine and rain on good and bad people alike.

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“Memento mori.”
Unknown · Traditional Latin saying; the idea appears in Tertullian's Apology · 197

Latin for “remember that you must die.” It is a reminder that life is short, meant to make you humble and to push you to spend your days on what matters.

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“No man is an island, entire of itself.”
John Donne · Devotions upon Emergent Occasions, Meditation XVII · 1624 · Poet

Donne, seriously ill and hearing a funeral bell, reflects that every person is part of humanity, so every death diminishes us all. The same passage ends with “for whom the bell tolls.”

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“So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.”
Book of Psalms · The Bible, Psalm 90:12 (King James Version) · 1611 · Religious figure

A prayer to understand how short life is, so that we spend our days wisely.

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“That best portion of a good man's life, his little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and of love.”
William Wordsworth · Lines Composed a Few Miles above Tintern Abbey (Lyrical Ballads) · 1798 · Poet

The best part of a good person's life is not their big achievements but the small, everyday kindnesses that nobody records and they themselves forget.

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“The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice.”
Martin Luther King Jr. · Address at the conclusion of the Selma to Montgomery march · 1965 · Activist

A promise that justice wins in the long run, even when progress is slow. King's compact wording condenses a longer image from an abolitionist sermon of 1853.

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“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.”
King Solomon · Ecclesiastes 3:1 (King James Version) · 300 BC · Religious figure

Life moves through opposite seasons, birth and death, weeping and laughing, and each has its proper time. The passage is both comforting and a reminder that we do not control the timing.

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“With malice toward none, with charity for all.”
Abraham Lincoln · Second Inaugural Address · 1865 · Politician

Spoken weeks before the Civil War ended and six weeks before Lincoln was killed. He asked the winning side to heal the nation without revenge.

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“Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life.”
Steve Jobs · Commencement address, Stanford University · 2005 · Founder

Jobs urges graduates to follow their own judgment rather than other people's expectations, because life is short. He spoke from the experience of a recent cancer diagnosis.

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How to use a quote in a eulogy

A eulogy is about the person, so the quote should serve your memories of them rather than replace them. Many speakers place a quote at the end, after the stories, as a quiet way to close; others use one in the middle to move from describing a life to saying goodbye.

If emotion is likely to catch you, a quote is a good anchor, because you can read it rather than speak from memory. Print it in large type, read slowly, and take a breath before and after it. A short pause after the last word gives the room a moment too.

Choose words the person would have liked. A favorite poet, a line from their faith, or something they used to say themselves often means more than the most famous quote on the subject. If it is a religious reading, check with the family or officiant first.