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Grief & loss quotes, explained

Quotes people turn to after a death, and the ones often read at funerals. Each one is checked against its original source, so you know who really said it before you use it.

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“'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
Alfred, Lord Tennyson · 1850
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“'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
Alfred, Lord Tennyson · In Memoriam A.H.H., canto 27 · 1850 · Poet

Tennyson, grieving the sudden death of his closest friend, decides that the pain of losing someone is better than never having loved them. It was written about friendship and death, not a breakup.

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“In Flanders fields the poppies blow between the crosses, row on row.”
John McCrae · “In Flanders Fields” · 1915 · Military leader

The dead of the First World War speak from their graves among the poppies, asking the living to carry on their cause and not break faith with them.

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“Memento mori.”
Unknown · Traditional Latin saying; the idea appears in Tertullian's Apology · 197

Latin for “remember that you must die.” It is a reminder that life is short, meant to make you humble and to push you to spend your days on what matters.

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“No man is an island, entire of itself.”
John Donne · Devotions upon Emergent Occasions, Meditation XVII · 1624 · Poet

Donne, seriously ill and hearing a funeral bell, reflects that every person is part of humanity, so every death diminishes us all. The same passage ends with “for whom the bell tolls.”

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“Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has many; not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.”
Charles Dickens · “A Christmas Dinner,” Sketches by Boz · 1836 · Writer

At a holiday gathering, don't dwell on what the year has taken from you. Count what you still have, because everyone has many blessings and every life has some sorrow.

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“Ring out the old, ring in the new.”
Alfred, Lord Tennyson · In Memoriam A. H. H., section 106 (numbered 104 in some early printings) · 1850 · Poet

The poet asks the New Year's bells to ring away the old year's grief, quarrels and injustice and to ring in kindness, truth and peace.

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“To be, or not to be, that is the question.”
William Shakespeare · Hamlet, Act 3, Scene 1 · 1600 · Playwright

Hamlet asks whether it is better to live and endure life's suffering or to die and end it, and concludes that fear of what comes after death keeps people going.

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“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.”
King Solomon · Ecclesiastes 3:1 (King James Version) · 300 BC · Religious figure

Life moves through opposite seasons, birth and death, weeping and laughing, and each has its proper time. The passage is both comforting and a reminder that we do not control the timing.

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“With malice toward none, with charity for all.”
Abraham Lincoln · Second Inaugural Address · 1865 · Politician

Spoken weeks before the Civil War ended and six weeks before Lincoln was killed. He asked the winning side to heal the nation without revenge.

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